Journey into the past and discover your family’s history
In 1980 I went off to university far from anywhere any of my ancestors had ever lived and the genealogy bug lay dormant for years. It didn't wake up again until I moved to Scotland in the early 1990s. Not that any of my ancestors hailed from Scotland either, but I satisfied my craving by doing research for friends, spending happy days at the General Register House and Scottish Archives in Edinburgh. I became interested in “house history”, researching the old farm
that I lived on and even dug into the history of vegetable varieties as a “seed sleuth” for the Henry Doubleday Research Organization!
Then came the internet and everything changed! Initially, as archives around the world set up websites and put their catalogues on line, it was still a case of ordering in paper copies of documents, or in some cases microfilms. Around the same time I moved back to the land of my birth, Canada, and discovered LDS family history centers and the option of ordering in microfilms. I spent many, many hours scrolling through microfilms. Between ordering in from archives and the LDS center I was able to carry out significant new research particularly on my Belgian and Spanish family lines. And then, bit by bit, the documents themselves were digitized and became available online. This took my abililty to do research to a whole new level.
You may have guessed that the above is not a picture of me. The young woman on the right is my paternal grandmother, with her brothers and parents. Anyone who knows me takes one look at this picture and immediately says "You look just like her!"
I grew up in a family that did not do conflict well. At any given time, some members of the family would, for whatever reason, not be talking to one another. On both sides of the family. And this had been going on forever. In fact, my father used to joke that there had been one family disagreement that had carried on for 300 years! (It was true, too. Many years later a Spanish archive kindly sent me 2kg of photocopied court documents and a microfilm to prove it!)
My family did, however, value its history. My Spanish father in particular was immensely proud of his heritage and had a large chest full of old family documents. Mostly, they dealt with land transactions and inheritances and the oldest dated from 1599! As a teenager I spent hours with my father poring over documents like the one in the picture on the left. (The picture below is me with my dad, ca 1963.)
Today I work overwhelmingly online, utilizing a huge and ever increasing number of resources. Increasingly, I am also becoming involved in genetic genealogy, using DNA to identify unknown recent ancestors and so add to clients' knowledge about their family's history.
A new, quite exciting venture is combining family history research with my work as a Clinical EFT Certified Practitioner. Doing so allows us to not only learn about our families' pasts, but also process and heal intergenerational trauma and dysfunctional patterns created by our ancestors' life experiences. Then we can not only live our lives free of the burdens of the past but also prevent them being passed on to the next generation!
Nobody questions why world star athletes still need coaches…
... but for some reason healers think they should be able to take care of themselves by themselves.
A case in point - my own this time. Now in my 60s, I have had lifelong problems with back pain since I was a teenager. I always had a pretty good idea where that came from: a medical emergency when I was an infant. Over the decades I have done a ton of work on it, and it certainly had improved. I often joke that I am in better shape now than I was as a young person. But it never completely went away. Sometimes it disappeared for a while, only to come back again. It was a constant, draining annoyance.
This spring my back had been bothering me more than usual and it had been going on for weeks again. I was thoroughly tired of it. Then, one of my EFT colleagues was looking for a practice client for some extra training she was doing. She asked me if I was interested and I said sure. Not having very high expectations I was hoping to at least knock my back pain into remission for a little while. But things didn't go the way I expected. While we were tapping, a long past event popped up in my memory that I would have never, ever expected to be related to this. But since it had made itself known to me we decided to follow our intuition and go with it. We cleared out that one event and my back pain reduced at least 90%. That was weeks ago, and it hasn't got worse again. (Of course I am now wondering what the remaining 10% is about…)
My point is: I have decades of relevant training and experience and of course I can do my own work on my own stuff. But I might never have unearthed that connection without the help of my colleague. Just like world star athletes still have their coaches, even the best healers still need that helping hand.
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